Finding your passion does not always equal happiness!

In this episode, I talk about why following your passion or that idea that is so inspiring may not always lead to long term happiness or fulfillment.  If You are at a crossroads to start a new career or business venture, you may be inspired by some ideas and things you have always wanted to do.  I would say take your next few steps carefully.  I often hear “but I thought this new career was the one”  or “the new business I started was going to be a success but, I am struggling” .   One simple step that most of us don’t pay attention to is giving enough time and attention to understanding our strengths and what we are really good at.  I go deeper into this concept in this episode. 

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    Prior to my diagnosis of ADHD, I always wondered why my emotions were always so intense. Once I learned that Adults with ADHD have emotional regulation challenges my whole approach to understanding and managing my emotions has been life-changing.

    In this episode, I invited back ADHD/Attention Coach Jeff Copper, to share his views on Emotional Dysregulation and also share my perspective on this topic. Midway through this talk we also share our point of view on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria which is different than what is out there

    I hope you enjoy this episode and this is another episode that you might want to share with your loved ones who are trying to understand why you have such big emotions.

    This episode is brought to you by Adult ADHD Group 3C Activation – to apply for this group coaching go to https://calendly.com/coachingwithbrooke/3-c-activation-1-1-application?month=2021-03

    Want to know more about 3C Activation? Click here >> https://www.coachingwithbrooke.com/3cactivation

    About Jeff Copper:

    Email: jeff@digcoaching.com | Website: www.digcoaching.com

    Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG, is an attention coach and expert on attention issues. He is the founder of DIG Coaching Practice and founder/host of Attention Talk Radio and Attention Talk Video. He coaches individuals with ADD/ADHD symptoms who are seeking personal and business results by helping them realize their potential. As someone who has had to learn to manage attention and deal with his own challenges, Jeff helps his clients understand themselves and how their minds work. To this end, Jeff developed his anatomy of attention construct to help them regain control of their attention and move past barriers. Using his anatomy of attention construct, they can achieve what they are capable of faster, with less stress, and create productive environments they need to succeed.

  • 457 | What’s Your Relationship with Feedback? with Chris Wang

    This week, Eric is joined by Chris Wang, the cofounder and CEO of Shimmer, an ADHD startup offering bite-sized coaching to individuals with ADHD!  Chris is an entrepreneur, social-impact advocate, angel investor, growth consultant, and forever tinkerer.  She believes strongly that business should be used as a force for good, and that positive impact not only isn’t the enemy of profit, but is a catalyst.  This thesis underpins every decision she makes, especially when it comes to the communities she is a part of and cares the most about, the communities including LGBTQ+, AAPI (Asian-American Pacific Islander), women, non-binary, and neurodiversity – especially with ADHD.  Find out more about Shimmer at https://www.shimmer.care  Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode: [00:02:26] Chris talks about getting prepared for the show [00:03:20] Eric asks Chris about her story launching Shimmer  [00:04:12] Chris shares her experience as a kid and where the messages of “being a kid” came from [00:07:19] Eric asks Chris about a “failure” from a previous business venture  [00:08:18] “I have the learning, it’s on a sticky note!” -Chris  [00:10:14] Where did Chris learn all of the skills she has now that’s led to personal growth and building a business?  [00:11:33] Eric pokes Chris’s brain: “How did you figure out what you needed to figure out?”  [00:15:09] Chris shares her journey with feedback and how it’s been used to improve Shimmer [00:23:14] Chris walks us through different types of feedback sessions, inspired by https://thefoundercoach.com  [00:26:53] What kind of person does it take to engage in vulnerable and courageous conversation?  [00:28:36] Chris shares an example of the language used when engaging in a feedback session  [00:33:28] “Sometimes feedback stings.” Chris talks about dealing with the sting of feedback.  [00:37:50] How do you get back up from negative or critical feedback?  [00:42:51] Chris shares more about what Shimmer is all about  [00:50:23] What is Chris most excited about with Shimmer?  [00:54:49] “What are you nerding-out about lately” and the importance of having something fun to do outside of business  [00:59:58] Chris gives listeners her final thoughts Resources & Honorable Mentions: Tool: (also an editor’s favorite!) Check out the Other Podcasts on the ADHD reWired Podcast Network: with Brendan Mahan with Will Curb with MJ Siemens  

  • 93: ”Yes, you can talk about mental health at work!” | Guest Melissa Doman, MA

    In this episode I am speaking with Melissa Doman, MA, Author of Yes, You Can Talk About Mental Health at Work (Here’s Why And How To Do It Really Well).

    We talk about mental health in the workplace and why now more than ever this is so important to be talked about in the workplace. 

    Her book is a fantastic handbook on how to approach this sensitive conversation in the workplace.  We addressed the approach of self-advocacy in the workplace as an individual contributor and a leader, the “toxic positivity trend”, and so much more. 

    This episode is dedicated to all who are in the workplace and managing mental health. I genuinely wish I had Melissa’s book back in the day in my corporate life, her book is a must-have in each team. 

     

    From the amazon book listing:

    Taking a realistic approach, through research, stories of lived experience and applied techniques that anyone can use, the book includes information on:-

    • How we bring our beliefs and experiences around mental health and mental illness into the workplace
    • The importance of understanding how the language we use, consciously or unconsciously, impacts us
    • Ways to manage the challenges around having mental health conversations at work
    • ‘How-to’ conversation guides
    • Concrete tips on ways to action this education individually or at a team level

    After reading this book, you’ll feel empowered and equipped to have constructive, meaningful conversations about mental health in your workplace

     

     

    About Melissa:

    Melissa Doman, MA is an Organizational Psychologist, Former Clinical Mental Health Therapist, & Author of Yes, You Can Talk About Mental Health at Work (Here’s Why And How To Do It Really Well). Melissa works with companies across industries around the globe – including clients like Google, Dow Jones, Microsoft, Salesforce, Siemens, Estée Lauder, & Janssen.

     

    She’s been featured as a subject matter expert in Vogue, the BBC, CNBC, Inc., and in LinkedIn’s 2022 Top 10 Voices on Mental Health. Having lived abroad in South Korea, England, Australia and traveled to 45+ countries, Melissa calls upon her global experiences to inform how she works with companies around the world. She has one core goal: to equip companies, individuals, and leaders to have constructive conversations about mental health in the workplace. Her work and book aim to accomplish just that.

  • #65: How to give yourself grace and freedom after ADHD diagnosis | Guest Brian Fanzo

    In this episode, I wanted to introduce you to Brian Fanzo, who shares his journey of a late in life diagnosis.

    I was so inspired by his passion for life, family, and most importantly self-compassion as he moves through ADHD in adulthood.

    Key points:

    • Journey of ADHD diagnosis as an adult and his perspective and later how he is supporting his child’s diagnosis of ADHD.
    • Brian shares how he sees his ADHD as a superpower and feels loud and proud of his brain wiring.
    • Reflection on how he managed his corporate days while not realizing he had ADHD
    • He leaned into his strengths and successfully transitioned into Entrepreneurship
    • He explains why his zen place is playing Poker
    • Brian’s share his unique way of how he approaches productivity while managing multiple business initiatives
    • and so much more, be sure to listen to the entire episode.

    About Brian:

    Brian Fanzo is a digital futurist keynote speaker who translates the trends of tomorrow to inspire change today. His customized and personalized programs showcase real-world stories and examples of forward-thinking people and businesses. He teaches companies of all sizes how to leverage technology in real time in order to engage their customers at the right time. Brian has a gift for bringing people together online and offline. He has worked in 76 countries, highlighting his passion for change, collaboration, and technology. At age 14, Brian won a speed typing contest and his love for computers and technology was born. After years of playing The Oregon Trail, creating in Adobe Pagemaker, and using Napster, Brian earned a Computer Science degree. Prior to speaking, he worked for nine years at the Department of Defense where he managed a global team who deployed collaboration and cybersecurity solutions across all branches of the military – which required him to maintain the highest civilian security clearance. He then pursued his dream job as a technology evangelist for a booming cloud-computing startup, helping companies embrace the rate of change and new ways to innovate. Brian is currently the Founder of iSocialFanz, which has helped launch digital and influencer strategies with the world’s most iconic brands like Dell, EMC, Adobe, IBM, UFC, Applebee’s, and SAP.

    Brian has been recognized as a Top 20 Digital Transformation Influencer; a Top 50 Most-Mentioned User by CMOs on Twitter, and a Top 25 Social Business Leader of the Future by The Economist. His followers on social media and podcast downloads rank in the hundreds of thousands, resulting in Brian being an influencer for 19 of the Fortune 100 companies.

    More about Brian at https://www.isocialfanz.com/adhd-superpowered

    https://brianfanzo.com/forced-to-work-from-home-with-adhd-now-what/

    https://www.isocialfanz.com/post/what-adhd-can-teach-you-about-entrepreneur-productivity

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